Deciding that you want to improve yourself is the first, very laudable step on the path to personal development. Here’s some self-help tips for you to try.
Try perusing some books on personal development. Having a good personal development book can give you insight and advice that will make a difference in your life forever. Many personal development books are poorly written, so pick one that has good reviews.
Always be ready to capture your good ideas when they occur, wherever you may be. Carry some kind of paper with you at all times. If an idea grabs you while you are on the subway, write it down, then do something about it when inspiration strikes.
Stay in top physical condition to maximize your self improvement success. A good diet, a lot of sleep and activity will give you more energy and help you get a healthier and better-looking body. This may sound simple on paper, but it is actually quite hard.
One way to raise your self-esteem is to give other people compliments. You can reverse the process, though. Being kind and positive to other people puts you in a good mindset and encourages you to treat yourself right.
Give yourself a boost of confidence by reciting all the things you like about yourself. On a postcard, write down all of your best qualities. Keep it with you at all times, and refer to it when necessary. An even more effective solution would be to read the list out and have it recorded on video; playing it back when you are feeling low. How will this help with your self improvement?
Begin a special savings for emergencies. For many people any unexpected expense results in more charges on their credit card. Even if you can only save $10 per week, do so. It will come in really handy when something goes wrong. This will be able to get you through a short term crisis like unemployment or a large unexpected health care bill.
Instead of bragging about how many things you’ve earned in your life, try to ask other people about what they’ve earned in their life and what they’re proud of. You will find that you will learn more about those around you better by doing this. Not only that, you can respect them by knowing more about them.
Arrange a meeting to speak with a counselor or clergy member. These people are experienced and will know what to do in your situation. They are there to simply hear what you have to say, and then give you guidance towards a better path. Discussing problems with professionals will help your life be healthier and happier.
Use these tips to start with and analyze your progress, thoughts and what changes that you feel. Avoid being too hard on yourself.